• raubarno 🇱🇹@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    My dark side: I feel disengaged in my duties, I tend to flee away from teamwork and skip deadlines, especially when the workflow is stressful. Of course, mates hate me for that :(

    Others’ inconsistencies I see: tendency to make careless decisions without thinking twice, or miscommunication (incorrect wording) of intended actions, especially in programming and/or designing things. Also, not admitting an expectation to get some sort of reward/compensation when giving things for free.

    Example:

    • A: You gave me this, thank you! What can I do/buy to you in return?
    • B: No need, thank you.
    • (one year later)
    • B: I gave you that, so I want you to do something in return.
    • A: You told me I’m not obliged to repay you!
    • B: You should’ve understood it by yourself!
    • A: …(Reimu mode activated)

    Jokes aside, I am generous but this unspoken liability pisses me off.