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VirusMaster3073@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 2 months ago

What's the biggest red flag/warning sign you have seen at someone's wedding?

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What's the biggest red flag/warning sign you have seen at someone's wedding?

VirusMaster3073@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 2 months ago
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    Well at least they are still married.

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      Considering the insanely high domestic abuse rate among police officers, I wouldn’t be so sure about that.

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        Is there a higher rate?

        Yes.

        Does that mean there IS domestic abuse in that marriage? No. Should we be implying there is? No

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            So there is zero chance that he might be a good person? Zero chance that he might care about the law? That’s a bit of a narrow minded view point.

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                The the best advice I have for you is when your home is being broken into or you are being attacked, do not call the police. Just beg the criminal to stop.

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                  What if it’s the police who’s breaking in and murdering you? (As it’s happened in real life multiple times)

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