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Cake day: July 23rd, 2023

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  • Here’s the secret.

    There’s a huge difference between not speaking to people and saying a few words.

    If someone says “hello” to you and you ignore them, they think you’re snubbing them. If you just say “hello” back then they are usually satisfied.

    Try timing your interactions. You’ll find if you spend even 15 seconds talking to people they’ll end the conversation themselves.







  • I have to go, but here’s some books you might like.

    If you like Neil Gaiman, look up Tanith Lee. Gaiman admits that she was his inspiration, and he stole a lot of his best ideas from her. “Night’s Master” is about a demon prince who travels the world seducing and/or tormenting humans.

    Alan Furst’s “Night Soldiers” is a WW2 era spy story that reads like a cross between Ian Fleming and Franz Kafka. A young Bulgarian fisherman becomes radicalized after fascists curb stomp his kid brother. He travels to Moscow and becomes a KGB agent in the Spanish Civil War.

    Colson Whitehead has two books about a 1960s Harlem fence. “Harlem Shuffle” and “The Crook Manifesto.” Reading them is like hanging out in a smoky barroom listening to some OG’s talking about life in the 1960s and 1970s.

    Enjoy!